Hamara Bajaj !

Hamara Bajaj and outdated 498a IPC Section
Though I am having father but everybody in my school and locality calls me “fatherless”. I was living with my father till the time my Nana (Father of my mother) registered a false 498a case of my father, my grand father, my grand mother and my real uncle. When Police came to arrest; I was playing football (big rubber ball) with my real cousin sister who is 6 months elder to me, in a party hosted by all of them on my “Mundan Ceremony”. I shouted papa-papa but police uncle gave deaf ear to it. I lost my childhood then and nobody is concerned about this.

On 14th November, 2009 (http://www.bhavyafoundation.org/events.html) near to “Sangam Crossing”, Aliganj, Lucknow I had a glimpse of a person who resembled like my father. I think he was my father on Yamaha motorcycle of Yaksh uncle. He stayed there for 5 minutes, blessed me through his eyes and left the place. I am not confident but love in his eyes was conveying the rest. If Court Uncle had wished then I would have got his love and affection also. I miss him badly in my life. But law makers and court uncle do not understand this requirement of a child, may be I do not have voting rights and I am not a vote bank for them.

I do not remember my grand father as I have hardly met him. We were not living together as he was posted in a different city and I, pappa and mamma were living in Delhi (NCR) where my father was working then. But some stories as told by my grand father are still there at back of my mind.

Way back when my father was as young as I am today, the first scooter that my grand father buy was “Hamara Bajaj Scooter-Priya”
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xEV8MWd1p3M&feature=PlayList&p=80169FA75E5ACCF6&playnext=1&playnext_from=PL&index=2)
and everybody in the family was so excited. It was a very small city, where my grandfather was living and scooter those days use to be a big thing and the party was thrown in the locality. My father was small then and must be thinking what is the point of such a joy.

He came to know the joyous of riding a scooter when first my grandfather took him for a ride. If you are a child living with your father then only you can understand this feeling and unfortunately God is not in my favor and I am fatherless hence can’t feel like you.

Anyway, my grand father taught driving to my father on that “Priya Scooter” only. Fathers are institutions; my father has learned so many things from his father including driving. I do want to learn driving on the same Hamara Bajaj Scooter but first 498a snatched my father and my childhood and now I am saddened to hear that Bajaj Scooters are going to stop production of scooters by March 2010.

http://business.rediff.com/report/2009/dec/09/auto-bajaj-to-stop-making-scooters.htm

The Bajaj management will be stopping scooter production as these scooters are outdated now. After the declaration of CJI
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aDZiHGBtDXY, President of India, Media Reports and Crpc amendments on 41a (Arrest after investigation and valid reason only) and SIF campaign, the most abused 498a IPC section is also outdated then what is stopping this congress government to take 498a back which has killed childhood of millions of children like me.

I request Mr. Manmohan Singh (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Manmohan_Singh) to learn from Mr. Rajiv Bajaj, Chairman Bajaj Auto (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rahul_Bajaj). Hamara Bajaj will be out of market by 30th March 2010, let us see when the same will happen to 498a IPC.

Best Regards,
http://www.bhavyafoundation,org/

Children Day: Blood Donation Camp organized !

To solicit your benign presence

Dear All,

I have a small request that Please don’t call me fatherless and my father as childless……

We both exist & living for each-other. We both are waiting for court uncle’s orders to get united………………..as I NEED both parents.

Almost all children like me, who are caught in matrimonial disputes, are suffering as “shared parenting” is not practiced in our country.

Nobody including court uncle understands that a child needs both parents.

Hundreds of Fathers and like minded people have decided to donate their blood for the welfare and long life of their children ……..

on
Children day (November 14, 2009)
at
Blood Bank, KGMC, Lucknow (UP)
From
10 AM to 2 PM

Join to support “shared parenting” to save childhood of millions of children and raise your voice for child rights on children day.

…….”One Father is better than 100 teachers…….”

Contact: Lucknow: 09450139307/9305323243, Rae-Bareli: 9455540355 and Delhi: 09999107314
Supported by: CRISP (Bangalore), Pati-Pariwar Kalyan Samiti (Lucknow), All India Forgotten Women (Hyderabad), GHRS (New Delhi), Save Family Foundation (New Delhi), Save Indian Family Foundation (Bangalore), AIMPF (Bangalore), IFF (Mumbai).
…….We children may be small, but our rights as a child are BIG and court uncle will also understand one day…………...
www.bhavyafoundation.org

“Save our rights to save the nation”

“Why say no to elder court uncle……?

“Why say no to elder court uncle……?

The day I heard that there are all women police stations, all women buses and the government is planning to start all women courts for the cause, welfare and justice of women. I am forced to think if above is true for cause of women; then what crime we children have done?

Why can’t we have all children court where children will be the judges to decide on child custody matters?

I have experienced that these elders have not understood that a child need both parents since independent India in 1947. It is these elders only who have first made women and child development ministry and then later allowed women issues to highjack child issues. It is these elders only who are not separating this ministry to work for real child welfare.

Now, I am forced to believe that these elders are not capable to understand children’s requirement and work for child welfare.

It is these elders only because of which we children’s have suffered for decades. It is these elders only who have used as an extortion tool. These elders have failed to understand that we are a child but not extortion or a blackmailing tool. It is these elders only who have treated my father as an ATM machine. It is because of these elders I was called “fatherless” and my father was “childless” for decades.

It is these elders only who have not allowed us to have access to love and affection of father for decades. It is these elders only who think that giving access to father to see child is for the welfare of father and not for child. It is these elders only who have given indefinite multiple dates for decades thinking matrimonial disputes will be over automatically by the passage of time.

One day a big court uncle said in his judgment that I can’t get love and affection of father as there is no female at my father’s house. They fail to see that I wanted love of father not anything else and they focused on everything else except my love towards my father. In last date in my child custody matter court uncle asked my father that what benefit he will get if he will see me? As if meeting child is for welfare of father but not for me. These elder do not recognize my right to have equal time with both parents.

I sincerely believe that these elders have failed to understand the pain of children who are caught in matrimonial disputes. These elders will never understand that a child needs both parents. These elders think that my issues are small. Brothers of my age group understand better that “we may be small but our issues are BIG”.

A child can only understand the pain of other child and I not only want but demand of separate children courts where children will be the judges to decide on child custody matters. I am a child and I understand that a child needs both parents.

If we children were the judges then there would not have been any requirement for rescue brother adithya (http://www.rescureadithya.org/) and no Maqdoom uncle (http://www.saveindianfamily.org/about-us/press-releases/349-candle-light-march-to-commemorate-syed-and-protest-the-judiciary.html) would have ended life for child.

-We do not want elder court uncle to decide child custody matters, we children are better to decide them judiciously-

Thank you !

Seminar Invitation: Bhavya Foundation !

Dear All,

I have a small request that Please don’t call me fatherless and my father as childless……
We both exist & living for each-other. We both are waiting for court uncle’s orders to get united………………..as I NEED both parents.

Almost all children like me, who are caught in matrimonial disputes, are suffering as “shared parenting” is not practiced in our country.

Nobody including court uncle understands that a child needs both parents.
Please come forward to save childhood of millions of children like me.
Understand my requirements more by attending a seminar on
“Pariwarik Vivado main Ghisat-ta, Sisakta BACHPAN”
at
Surya Hotel, Civil Lines, Rae-Bareli (UP)
on 09/08/09 (Sunday)
from 11 to 2 PM
Join to support “shared parenting” to save my childhood and raise your voice against misuse of 498a (Dowry Law), Biased domestic violence Act, Slow and biased child custody matters and conspiracy to destroy the Family System of India. Let us prevent India becoming a Father Less Society.

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Contact: Rae-Bareli: 09455540355, Lucknow: 09305323243/09807149032 and Delhi: 09999107314/09868609678

Supported by: CRISP (Regd.), Pati-Pariwar Kalyan Samiti (Regd.), All India Forgotten Women (Regd.), MASI (Regd), Save Family Foundation (Regd.), Save Indian Family Foundation (Regd.)
…….I may be small, but my rights as a child are BIG and court uncle will also understand one day…………...

“Pariwar Bachao-Bachpan Bachao”